My very first memory of Cheryl was her arriving home from hospital in our Mum’s arms,
Dad beside them. I was watching from the flat window with our Auntie Rose. Cheryl was a
happy, cheerful, chubby baby with huge brown eyes and a disarming smile. We were
always dressed in identical clothes and as Cheryl was a tomboy she was always made to
travel in Dad’s car in her underwear until we arrived at our destination. We had lovely
family holidays and I remember one occasion when Cheryl was about three years old and
went missing whilst we were playing the sand. A full scale alert was underway when she
was finally found by a concerned family running along the beach with her bucket in hand.
On these holidays we were often entered into fancy dress competitions where our Mum
had made our costumes out of crepe paper. Mum was never a seamstress but clever at
designing and making things, although Auntie Rose always made our identical outfits.
In the summer we would often walk with Dad through the woods and play putting, before
having a glass of lemonade and a packet of crisps at the pub whilst Mum cooked the roast.
After lunch we would play Lotto, Ludo and Snakes and Ladders. Every Saturday we
would visit both sets of Grandparents. At Nanna Pendrey’s we were made to listen to the
football results, and at Nanna Bass’s we would help feed the chickens, have rock cakes
and get a sixpence each. Home on the trolley bus before Dad got his car, and Cheryl
was often asleep in Dad’s arms on the way home.
Cheryl had a huge heart always wanting to help people if she could. Some people are
here for a long time making a small contribution every day and some people are only
here for a short time but make an incredible difference throughout their life. My sister
was incredible and I will miss her always. She has grown her wings too early but she
will be the sweetest, funniest and naughtiest angel in Heaven.